Hey, do you spoon feed her or let her feed hers...

Hey, do you spoon feed her or let her feed herself? My little guy goes through phases where he won't eat much and just spits out anything from a spoon. He will sometimes happily eat things he can feed himself and sometimes not. I've stopped stressing about it and quite often just give him finger food and let him go for it. A lot ends up on the floor and in his lap, but he does sometimes eat! I tend not to look at the quantity he eats on a single day, but average it out over a week - some days he eats like a horse and some days barely anything! It could certainly be teething related and if so will just improve once her mouth settles down. If she's happy and active and doing lots of nappies I wouldn't stress yet. I gave up stressing and trying to make DS eat - it just made him worse! Sorry, not much help.